The View from our home
My Mom and Dad’s favorite tree, in front of our kitchen
To realtors, a house is nothing but a commission. To rich buyers, a house is nothing but another way to show off their new possession. To me, a house is not just an object to be traded as a commodity nor is it a possession to be displayed in public. It is a home I have to connect with.
Anyhow, during this whole selling process, I learned a lot about reading people - the smooth charming ones who can cut you like a sharp knife when you speak up your mind, the arrogant ones who walk into your house with their nose up in the air as though they are better than you with their over the top clothes, watches and cars that have been bought with borrowed money and the downright rude ones with tongues that should be used to clean toilet bowls. Of course, I also met a handful of nice people but they were the exception to the rule. I guess this is what happens when you are selling a high-end property to those not so high-end buyers because people with old money do not behave this way.
Anyhow, during this whole selling process, I learned a lot about reading people - the smooth charming ones who can cut you like a sharp knife when you speak up your mind, the arrogant ones who walk into your house with their nose up in the air as though they are better than you with their over the top clothes, watches and cars that have been bought with borrowed money and the downright rude ones with tongues that should be used to clean toilet bowls. Of course, I also met a handful of nice people but they were the exception to the rule. I guess this is what happens when you are selling a high-end property to those not so high-end buyers because people with old money do not behave this way.
My family and I had many pool parties [wish I had more photos of us, but it's all in storage :( ]
The View from my hotel
With the exception of a few friends,
everyone else thought I was crazy. “You already live in a nice home, why would
you spend so much money and not even be on vacation, save your money, don’t
spend, if you have extra money, give it to me,” were some of the comments people made.
Well, let me tell you, you cannot put a price on saving your sanity. Staying at
Sofitel was one of the best money I ever spent and if I had to do it all over again,
I would do the same thing except this time, I would stay at the Ritz because as
the old cliché goes, I am worth it. Here is another photo from my room
at Sofitel:
No
one understood why this entire selling process was so difficult for me, no one
and that includes my realtors, my brother and my father. Interestingly enough,
the first producer who filmed the house and me got it right away even before I
could understand it myself as she pointed out, this is your childhood home,
show how you feel. Of course at the time she was filming me, I was numb. It was
not until months later when I understood what she was trying to say to me, but
the film had already been done and over with – no second takes the same way as
there are no second takes in life.
My mother's orchids. She had 4 of these and they were amazing. She had a green thumb which I did not inherit.
The second person who understood me when this deal closed was
my real estate attorney. He said congrats, this deal closed, but I know this
deal was not just about the house, it was about emotions. I will always
remember this and I will always remember these two people who hardly knew me,
but understood me so deeply. Well, I guess it is now time to say goodbye. I had
some great memories there, but it is time for me to close that chapter of my
life and start a new one. Below are some more photos of my childhood home.
Our Pond and my mother’s flowers
The front gate
By the way, it took forever to empty out this house. Years of childhood memories are impossible to wipe out in a matter of days. Thanks to two of my good friends whom I have known for a longtime and several devoted employees, I managed to get out of this deal alive. Now I live in a high-rise in downtown – again one of the best decisions I have ever made even when those around me thought I was nuts. I’ll be living here temporarily until I decide where exactly it is I want to live. Right now, I may not be sure of many things in my life, but there is one thing I am certain of and that is I will now have the time to work on my third book and get back into social media. I miss my virtual friends :)) And alas, years of childhood memories have been reduced to a pile of stuff sitting in a storage space until I’m ready to get rid of most of them too.
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